Article By – Manish Behl and Published by The Free Press Journal

The Paradox of Success: Why Having It All Can Still Feel Empty

Hello Leaders and Changemakers,

Success is something we all chase money, recognition, strong relationships yet many still feel unfulfilled even after achieving it. Have you ever wondered why success doesn’t always bring the happiness we expect? That’s the question I explore in my recent video.

The Story: Chasing the Horizon

We live in a world that constantly tells us to want more. The unmarried long for marriage, while the married sometimes dream of divorce. The young want to grow old, and the old wish they could turn back time. It’s easy to think the grass is greener on the other side, but what if the problem isn’t what we lack but how we perceive what we already have?

I’ve found that this paradox extends into the workplace. We chase promotions, bigger salaries, and more recognition, believing these external achievements will bring lasting happiness. Yet, many leaders and team members confess to feeling empty despite these markers of success.

Main Learnings: Shifting the Focus Inward

1. Appreciate What Is, Instead of Chasing What Isn’t

As the video highlights, “nothing grows without care”. If we’re always focused on what we don’t have, we neglect to nurture what we do. This applies to our careers, our teams,      and our own well being. Take a moment to appreciate your current position, your colleagues, and your skills. Gratitude can transform a sense of lack into one of abundance.

2. Realize That “Enough” Is Within Reach

The pursuit of more can be endless. There will always be a higher mountain to climb. True contentment comes from recognizing that “everything you need is already within your reach.” This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive for improvement, but that we should do so from a place of inner satisfaction.

3. Mindfulness Unlocks the Blessings We Overlook

In our busy lives, we often overlook the blessings around us. Mindfulness helps us slow down, breathe, and truly see the opportunities, relationships, and moments of joy that fill our days. As leaders, we can foster this awareness in our teams by encouraging regular pauses for reflection and gratitude.

Redefining Success

Success isn’t just about promotions, money, or recognition. True success is measured by how fulfilled, present, and content we feel in our everyday lives.

Wisdom for Leaders and Teams

As leaders, it’s our responsibility to create a culture where success is not just about external achievements but also about inner fulfillment.

Here are a few practical steps:

• Encourage Gratitude: Start meetings by sharing something you appreciate about your team or your work.
• Promote Work Life Balance: Remind your team that their value is not tied to their productivity alone.
• Foster Open Dialogue: Create a safe space for team members to discuss their feelings and aspirations.

Final Thoughts

The key to lasting happiness isn’t about accumulating more but about appreciating what we have and finding contentment within ourselves. When we shift our focus from the external to the internal, we discover that everything we need is already within our reach.

Let’s lead with mindfulness, creating workplaces where success is measured not just by profits but by the well being and fulfillment of every individual.

With gratitude and awareness,

Manish Behl

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